“Uncomfortably Comfortable”

Prison, PTSD and Walking through madness to find me

NIKKI EVERETT

‘Uncomfortably Comfortable’

At some point, life challenges us with trauma that cuts deeply into our existence, reshaping our sense of self. Nikki's life, once ordinary and content as a mother of three girls and professional working with prisoners, takes an unexpected turn. Violence in the confines of a maximum-security prison leaves her navigating the obstacles of Complex-PTSD. With candid vulnerability, Nikki invites readers into her world of triggers, flashbacks, and dissociation, along with lingering fears that many find incomprehensible.

This book isn't a clinical guide; it is a heartfelt sharing from one soul to another. It's about understanding how trauma impacts our mind body and soul and learning to approach healing with compassion rather than harsh self-judgment.

About the book by Nikki Everett

What Others Are Saying

  • Comfortably Uncomfortable is more than a memoir; it is a lifeline, a guide, and a testament to the power of embracing discomfort as a pathway to self-discovery and resilience. This book is an invitation to see your own cracks not as weaknesses but as spaces where your strength can shine through.

    Dr. Mari Molloy Clinical Psychologist BA (Psych), PostGrad Dip (App Psych), DPsych (Clinical) MAPS, FCCLI

  • “This book is a must read for anyone who wants to recover from trauma. Nikki’s story is powerful and purposeful, insightful and informative, harrowing yet hopeful. She bravely speaks of her experiences of loss, violence, relationship rupture and complex PTSD. She gives us a road map to come out the other side of our own struggles. We can all benefit from Nikki’s life experience, wisdom and compassion.”

    Professor Lea Waters, PhD, Order of Australia

  • Uncomfortably Comfortable.I found myself immersed in Nikki’s words, actually reading but hearing it in her voice. It captivated me, made me sad and I cried in parts . Impossible to comprehend. Nikki you should be absolutely proud of your accomplishments thus far. A truly inspiring read and I rarely finish a book. I finished reading Uncomfortably Comfortable in 4 days highly recommend reading.

    Lasanna Feldman

  • I don't know where to begin. Actually, yes, I do... Thank you... What an amazing read. I rode each emotion as if It were me. Some parts have been and are me. You have given a gift in this book as you relive your trauma and put it on paper for us to share. My heart breaks for you, but I'm so glad you are finding peace through your gold nuggets. You must be proud. I'm proud of you. Thank you

    Kylie Riviere

  • “I could not put this down, Nikki explains simply how the brain works, through stories with humour and fear. I cannot wait for her next book.”

    Lisa Johnston

  • I found this book very interesting and how people deal with PTSD. Nikki is a strong woman and should be proud.I have taken away some very helpful information.

    Gaye Chivers

  • “Nikki’s raw narrative not only captures her struggles but also provides practical advice and hope for others facing similar battles."

    Lisa Ritchie

  • "This book takes you on highs and lows emotionally. Written from both personal experience and thorough research."

    Kate Greener

  • "This novel will lock you within its pages and won’t release you until it's heartwarming end."

    Sonya Clarke

  • "Uncomfortably Comfortable is an engaging and absorbing book that kept me hooked until the very end."

    Eileen Hughes

  • It opened up a lot for me and helped me understand why I am the way I am.

    Simone K

  • Just finished Uncomfortably Comfortable, it was a great read !ew List Item

    Elizabeth Pratt

  • "In a society that often overlooks the silent struggles of those with CPTSD, Nikki fearlessly bares her soul in a groundbreaking narrative that defies expectations."

    Maureen Earl

  • Your book is spot on with the symptoms I’ve experienced, and it’s so good in helping those who don’t have PTSd in understanding what’s happening to our mind and body. Thankyou for being so brave and telling your story.

    Joanne Hughey

  • Congrats to you on this journey, it personally inspires me as I conquer PTSD, and am grateful to have you that understands, and to see you be brave and educate others.

    Corrina E

  • I just finished reading your book. I am going to start journaling about what I went through. You are an amazing lady and this book just proves it . Always hold your head up high

    Renae F

  • I finished your book a few days ago, and it’s been such a gift. It’s helped me accept that I’m not someone who just couldn’t “cope” with a hard job I actually did experience traumatic events. It was real, and it’s justified to have PTSD. I’m not a wuss, I actually went through some tough shit! I feel like if anyone would get its you! Anyway, thank you

    Sarah L

  • I found this to be a truly raw and inspiring read so honest and very easy to read , not to complex and made understanding of PTSD easier . Personally I got a lot out of this read due to my own situation and has given me an insight into things I can try that may help , a huge well done and congratulations to Nikki and I hope there is another book to come .

    Amanda DeBono

     

     

  • “Uncomfortably Comfortable offers an opportunity for transformation. Nikki draws upon her own mental health experience. Her story displays resilience and courage, told with warmth, honesty wisdom and heart. Easy to see why this book is a best seller. “

    Jennifer Joy Kurtze,

    Author of Where Love Is.

  • I just wanted to say thank you for writing your book and feelings for complex PTSD and anxiety. I also have complex PTSD and anxiety, Everything you’re writing and finding the words for how we feel is spot on and relatable . Others do not understand. Just wanted to say thank you.

    Kylie C

  • My husband has PTSD from a workplace accident, your description of flashbacks, night terrors and disassociation is like watching a documentary of our life. Thank you for giving me the opportunity to have some really difficult conversations

    Tanya H

  • I just wanted to reach out to congratulate you on your courage and the launch of your book. Well done to you for being brave enough to share your challenges and story for all to learn from. You should be extremely pleased and proud

    Eddy Kontelj

  • I’m finding the whole book fascinating & a real eye opener to my own past. My daughter wants to read it next.

    Linda Dalitz

  • I finished your book last night and it’s taken me a day or so to digest it- probably cause I could understand so much of it…. Having worked in prisons myself as a prison officer from age of 25-30yo, being diagnosed with ptsd not knowing how to convey my feelings even though I’m an experienced public speaker. I think you’ve done a marvellous job conveying the emotions and aspects of it all without being preachy. It was raw and really well written. Be so proud of yourself as I think it will help a lot of people who can relate also - I know I did xo

    Simone L

  • I would like to say thank you for writing this book. Like yourself I have endured life changing traumas. During my time of healing, I approached my healing in a holistic way. Art therapy, Meditation , Women circles retreats. Etc . Educated myself in psychology to understand what trauma does to The brain .And how to heal from it , (or to help cope with it at least). Studied and obtained a diploma in counselling as well . But it wasn’t until I read your encounters with PDST and how you felt in certain situations that for the first time ,I felt that somebody actually, really understood me. I could actually relate to 90% of how PTSD affected you . As it affects me in the same or similar ways. I actually feel reading those words was like a Ah Ha moment. I feel so grateful to you because since reading your book, I feel like my healing has progressed further along. Thank you, Nikki. I’m so grateful.

    Leanne Wiseman

  • It's funny how you can know someone (or think you do) but find out you don't really know them at all. I just finished reading the book my friend Nikki Everett has written about her experience with PTSD. The things she had to deal with in the course of just doing her job, puts our everyday worries into perspective. It is a must read for anyone who has experienced trauma or wants a better understanding of how to recognise PTSD and how to find your way through it. It is at times a harrowing read, but in the end is a book of hope A message of never give in

    Paula Kontelj

Lifeline Geelong
‘Women’s Wellness’

Keynote Speaker: I had the privilege of being the keynote speaker, talking about my book Uncomfortably Comfortable and raising awareness about living with Complex PTSD. I truly hope my story of resilience and healing inspired and uplifted all who attended.

Meet
The Author

As I wrote "Uncomfortably Comfortable," I took a deep dive into my past traumas, reliving painful memories and examining how they have shaped me into the person I am today. The concept of Kintsugi, the Japanese art of repairing broken pottery with gold, resonated deeply with me. It symbolises that our flaws and imperfections can be highlighted and transformed into something even more unique and resilient.

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